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{Every Woman Should Have} The Protection of a Slush Fund

This is not a typical savings post, but a post that might just save you.  I learned a very adult lesson when I was just a teenager watching a friend’s mother pick up the pieces after a messy divorce.  To my knowledge, it was he who messed up…..so how in the world did she have to downgrade the lifestyle that they built together and he upgraded?   The simple answer, he probably had the better lawyer.  They shared an account but she didn’t  have an account all by herself.  At 15 years old, I learned that life happens and not everyone gets the happily ever after they were expecting.  More importantly, I learned that every woman should have a  her own money.  I vowed that would NEVER be me.  That was the year I started saving my own money.

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The Protection of a Slush Fund

Creating a Slush Fund for yourself isn’t a selfish act nor does it have to be a sneaky one.  In this post, Fortune Magazine author,  Jean Chatzky, cites a study conducted by Princeton Research Associates for CreditCards.com.  According to the study, “7.2 million Americans (4.4 million men and 2.8 million women to be precise) have a bank account or credit card that their spouse or live-in partner doesn’t know about”.  That kind of omission in a relationship is not my personal cup of tea.  I believe in the “yours-mines-ours” approach where the lines are clear and the division of funds works for both  parties.   This “Yours-Mines-Ours” strategy is me taking an active role in my personal finances and joint finances.  Gone are the days where women are expected to blindly allow their spouses to run their financial house without know how the money is flowing in and out.

 Regardless of your relationship status, YOU have a  responsibility of  building your financial house on a stronger foundation.  Be proud of that.  Be clear about your expectations. Be smart about your money.  Every woman should have a protective slush fund because no one can protect you like you.  

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You’re married, so should you have your own slush fund?